Adolescent Sexuality Education and the Cost of the Conspiracy of Silence
Abstract
Adolescents experience a spate of physical and psychosexual changes, which they would have understood if they had adequate information on sexuality and sexual health. In Nigeria, socio-cultural expectations including the classification of sex-related issues as taboo subjects prevent parents, guardians and other adults from discussing sexuality issues or giving factual and adequate information in response to adolescents’ questions. The consequence of the conspiracy of silence is that adolescents are uninformed, misinformed or under-informed about many issues. This study seeks to evaluate the extent of the knowledge of sexuality education among in-school adolescents as well as ascertain the sources of their knowledge. It also seeks to establish the relationship between knowledge of sexuality issues and sexual behaviour. Using a multi-stage sampling technique, the study obtained data from 1350 adolescents in State–owned senior secondary schools in Lagos state, Nigeria. Findings from the study show that majority of the adolescents had, at one time or the other, been confused about relationship with members of the opposite sex, their bodies and even relationship with friends of the same sex. Although adolescents acknowledged that parents had prepared them for changes in their bodies more than their friends, such preparation did not include information on sex, prevention of pregnancy or what to expect in a relationship. Friends/classmates constitute adolescents’ first source of information on these issues and they are the ones from whom adolescents seek counsel when they are confused. The study underscores the need to break the silence surrounding sexuality in Nigeria as in other African societies. The cost of the silence is high. It results on the short term, in increasing number of ill-informed and sexually unhealthy adolescents; and on the long term, in high mortality and morbidity rates, worsening various dimensions of human development and threatening sustainable development.